I have worked with a number of couples who have experienced an affair in their relationship and are looking for help processing, accepting, and moving forward. I recently had the pleasure of recording a podcast interview with Katie Pegoraro from the Work Life center at SAS specifically on the topic of emotional affairs including what they can look like and how couples can work together to recover.
Here are the two books I recommend in the podcast:
“After the Affair” by Janis A Spring
“The State of Affairs” by Esther Perel